I grew frustrated with the post below. It didn’t quite flow the way I wanted it to so I decided to ice it for a while.
Individualism is a trait that is prized by many people. It is something that we teach our children. Here in the U.S. it is quite common to hear people use phrases like think outside of the box or color outside of the lines. If someone calls you a sheep it is not a compliment. This is a very simple explanation for why we see so many examples of people trying to demonstrate their independence by how they dress, adorn their bodies etc.
Yet humans are communal creatures. Most of us want to be a part of a group. Most of us want to be accepted in a community of peers and others who think like we do. Trying to demonstrate/maintain that independent think outside of the box streak while still being a part of the gang is similar to walking barefoot on hot coals. If you lose your focus you will fill the heat.
I suppose that you could say that this begs the question of what is most important, independence or being a member of the community.
Woman,
Shalom. Thanks.
Liorah,
Well said.
Paula,
Some things never change.
I’m a unique snowflake … just like everyone else. I hear you, Jack. I see the kids all being “different” by wearing the same stuff and listening to the same music. As we did way back when.
indeed, perhaps it never can
trust is such a fragile thing, once broken, it’s hard to regain
A “community” doesn’t sacrifice its weakest members to the the Nazis year after year either. I’m not quite sure what to call such a collection of cowards who do such a thing.
A “community” which seeks to subjugate and destroy the souls of its weakest members isn’t worthy to be called a community.
shalom..nice musings Jack!…and a difficult subject to conquer..kudos ~!